Two years ago I realised for the first time that I end up making
the “right” moves in life, but often I make those changes later than
the average of my peers.
Owning a house, investing money, getting married, having kids…
It's not that I fail at those projects, or shun those life decisions: it's just that sometimes
I get to those places a few years later than would be desirable — judging
with the benefit (and the bias) of hindsight.
That was stating the obvious, I guess.
Of course you want to start earning money earlier rather than later.
Of course you want to travel soon, so that you'll have more time to visit more places in your life.
You'll probably end up marrying and having kids (like most people do), so why postpone it
unnecessarily?
And yet, for me, strangely, that was a novel realisation.

Armed with that silly “insight”, in 2023 I noted that
“now that I've spotted a trend in my life trajectory,
it should be ‘easy’ for me to course-correct.
[…]
That means making an effort to identify the next life goals, and acting quicker to get there.
And so I have been wondering:
What are people my age starting to do now?
What will they be doing in a few years' time?”